Are you tired of using the same old pick-up lines and spinning games to pick up girls?
There is an easier way to make girls want you without even having to say a word. Use these subtle techniques to make her subconsciously want you.
She won’t know what hit her!
1. Show Your Sensitive Side
Although most women think they want a manly-man, a lot of women appreciate guys who are in touch with their sensitive side. When you reveal your slightly softer side, she will subconsciously feel more comfortable and at ease with you because she will see you as someone who doesn’t hide their feelings.
2. Keep It Casual
Although it’s tempting to go all out to make yourself look your best on a date, dressing to impress can actually be intimidating to a woman. Keep your look casual as this will subconsciously put her at ease knowing that you are casual in your own appearance and therefore not scrutinizing hers. Women who are self-conscious can often be turned away by guys that look as though they are too high maintenance or superficial.
3. Mimic Her Actions
One of the easiest ways to put someone at ease and make them subconsciously like you is by mimicking their body language. To do this, watch her body language and subtly copy it.
For instance, if she is leaning in towards you, reciprocate the action to show your interest.
4. Be Open
Whether you realize it or not, your body language is telling her more than your words are. By sitting with an open body position – slightly open legs, open facing palms and shoulders back – this gives her the subconscious notion that you feel comfortable around her. As a result, she will feel comfortable talking to you and feel connected to you.
5. Speak Softly
Your tone of voice and the speed at which you talk is an important factor in making her subconsciously like you. Women feel comfortable when a man talks in a deep, slow voice as this shows dependability and steadiness. If you’re someone who tends to talk fast, try to slow it down to catch her attention.
6. Improve Your Skills
Learn how to surf, play guitar or speak a foreign language. Intelligence is sexy, and what’s more, you’ll appear more dynamic to her. But whatever you do, just don’t brag about it. Just let it slip into conversation and she’ll definitely notice it. What girl wouldn’t like a boyfriend who can recite Shakespeare’s Romeo and Juliet followed by an acoustic guitar being played in front of the fireplace?
7. Make Plans
Girls love men who have everything under control and who know how to plan. Plan the whole evening, make reservations, and make sure your favorite café is open after 11 pm. Even though it doesn’t mean it’ll go that way, you will still make an impression because of your efforts, and let her know you’re not just a boring, passive man.
8. Be A Gentleman
That’s right, mind your manners, don’t swear, and open the door for her. Being a gentleman, unfortunately, might be a little bit old-fashioned nowadays, but girls will find it simply irresistible. However, make sure you know the rules of being a gentleman, so you don’t embarrass yourself.
9. Independence
Nothing’s more attractive than a guy who knows how to take care of himself. If you’re financially independent, live alone and pay your own bills, most women will see you as a grown man who will stand up for them if needed. You’re the alpha male to them and they will naturally be attracted to you.
10. Compliments
Most people have their favorite word, and we’re almost completely sure it’s their own name. People love to hear the sound of their name, so make sure you call her by her name, and compliment her. We’re all weak when it comes to compliments and flattering. So, just go for it.
11. Mind the Others
Be kind to everyone in her companionship, but know where to draw the line. You don’t want to be too flirty or she’ll take you as a womanizer, and you don’t want to be rude to her friends. They’re HER friends and she loves them more than some random guy. So if you manage to make her friends love you, you’re on the right way.
12. Don’t Seek Approval
Stay on your own course when it comes to your beliefs or attitudes. It doesn’t mean you should immediately state your opinions about abortion or marriage, but just don’t agree with everything she says. Don’t simply follow her, but make your own direction and she’ll be happy to follow it if she likes you. Not to mention you’ll come across as determined and a man who knows what he wants, which we can’t stress enough how important this is.
13. Hint that you’re Not a Weirdo
There are a lot of psychopaths, perverts and weirdoes out there so you might want to hint her you’re normal. Don’t mention your fetishes or most embarrassing moments right away because you might scare her. Simply mention your friends, favorite bar, movie or parents, so she’ll feel more secure with you knowing you won’t take her to a satanic ritual.
That’s right, mind your manners, don’t swear, and open the door for her. Being a gentleman, unfortunately, might be a little bit old-fashioned nowadays, but girls will find it simply irresistible. However, make sure you know the rules of being a gentleman, so you don’t embarrass yourself.
9. Independence
Nothing’s more attractive than a guy who knows how to take care of himself. If you’re financially independent, live alone and pay your own bills, most women will see you as a grown man who will stand up for them if needed. You’re the alpha male to them and they will naturally be attracted to you.
10. Compliments
Most people have their favorite word, and we’re almost completely sure it’s their own name. People love to hear the sound of their name, so make sure you call her by her name, and compliment her. We’re all weak when it comes to compliments and flattering. So, just go for it.
11. Mind the Others
Be kind to everyone in her companionship, but know where to draw the line. You don’t want to be too flirty or she’ll take you as a womanizer, and you don’t want to be rude to her friends. They’re HER friends and she loves them more than some random guy. So if you manage to make her friends love you, you’re on the right way.
12. Don’t Seek Approval
Stay on your own course when it comes to your beliefs or attitudes. It doesn’t mean you should immediately state your opinions about abortion or marriage, but just don’t agree with everything she says. Don’t simply follow her, but make your own direction and she’ll be happy to follow it if she likes you. Not to mention you’ll come across as determined and a man who knows what he wants, which we can’t stress enough how important this is.
13. Hint that you’re Not a Weirdo
There are a lot of psychopaths, perverts and weirdoes out there so you might want to hint her you’re normal. Don’t mention your fetishes or most embarrassing moments right away because you might scare her. Simply mention your friends, favorite bar, movie or parents, so she’ll feel more secure with you knowing you won’t take her to a satanic ritual.
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